Over the last few days I have been making the journey from our apartment to sit on the street with our friends as L0ri is out of town. The first day I was sitting with them I was listening to them speak, attempting to catch phrases that I might understand when I saw a white person walk past. Using my limited language skills to formulate a sentence I said “ HEY...He is a white person, I am M@lian.” We all laughed together, but instead of correcting me they said “He is a white person, C@therine is M@lian.” Holding my arm up to their arms I compared skin color and said “Our skin is the same.” We continued to laugh as everybody around was told that “I am M@lian and I have the same skin color as they do.” And even though L0ri was not present this day they didn’t forget about her…as soon as we could catch our breath they said to me “Lori is M@lian, not a white person. Her skin is the same as ours.” The next day as I made another journey to sit on the street with them another white person drove by in a car. Immediately our friend turned to me and said “Look white person, you, Lori M@lian.” The laughter starts up again as we continue to repeat “I am not a white person, I am M@lian. L0ri is not a white person, she is M@lian."
Our friends on the street no longer look at L0ri or me as a white person but as one of them. No matter the color of our skin or the limited language that can be spoken. We have become a part of them and they have become a part of us. As I look back on these moments I am reminded of Father’s W0rd that shows us and teaches us to live like the people around us…to find a common ground with everyone, doing everything to spread the W0rd of J.s.s and bring the ones around us to J.s.s. Father has opened the doors for our relationship on the street to deepen every day that we are out there selling peanuts and ice. Every day I go sit out on the street hoping to learn more of their heart language, to help them put their peanuts in small baggies, to load up ice, to yell “Hey Glace” (after they yell it of course…for I am still learning what cars to yell at) just hoping that they will see beyond my physical being and see a glimpse of Father’s gl0rious character. How amazing it was to hear from them this day agreeing that L0ri and I are M@lian now and not white people anymore. I give pr@ise to our Father for lowering the barriers of language and skin color to have this friendship and to find a common ground with our friends. Pr@y as L0ri and I spend more time with them that each day they will see past our physical presence and see our Father’s gl0rious character. Pr@y for us for our time is close that we will be able to share stories and Father’s W0rd with them. Pr@y for their eyes to be opened to see Father's gl0rious character and ears to hear the truth of Father's W0rd.
C@therine